In my case, I don't see it as a problem. I value my personal privacy too much to have a girlfriend or family.
I think second and third wave feminism are mostly responsible for this situation. To me the whole conversation has become so men vs women that they can't even talk about their own issues without interrupting each other. Many women think it's all about them because feminism says that #allmen are oppressors and many men are so tired of female "empowerment" that many of them don't care about their problems anymore. Feminism is completely void of compassion for men so men don't care about women and women don't care about men. It's all self-perpetuating. I apologize if this comes off as unhinged as I've left social media all together and don't feel comfortable talking about this stuff to the people in my life who use social media (who are women). I just wanted to type this down somewhere for a long time.
Thankfully I don't associate with ideological groups so I don't consider these problems as my own.