As a guy on the chubbier side who doesn't pack much, I'm always curious why there seems to be such a lack for people of my body type, yet gals with extra meat in them are so fawned over. Picking people's brains about this stuff kinda fascinates me
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Wider hips & Extra ass is sexy and makes people's ape brains go " Awooga "
Being Skinny-fat is not.
Luckily for you women like " dad-bods " ( strong upper body, little bit of gut fat - they're poorly describing bulked guys ) so 2 weeks in the gym will make you desirable.
If you mean " BBW " for the most part that's just guys lowering their standards because they're not pretty or charismatic enough to attract anything above a 4 ( they also tend to make up for their eating habits with a good personality )
IvoryFuta-II said:
Wider hips & Extra ass is sexy and makes people's ape brains go " Awooga "
Being Skinny-fat is not.Luckily for you women like " dad-bods " ( strong upper body, little bit of gut fat ) so 2 weeks in the gym will make you desirable.
If you mean " BBW " for the most part that's just guys lowering their standards because they're not pretty or charismatic enough to attract anything above a 4 ( they also tend to make up for their eating habits with a good personality )
So you're saying just being slightly chubby isn't attractive? I'd need to achieve a "dad-bod" to be desired?
In regards to porn, I'd think it has to do with the masculine virtue of disciplined strength. Since most of that porn is made for us, there will be little representation for men like you and I (underweight and over). As for women's lack of attraction, I couldn't give you an answer I'd greatly believe in. I wouldn't recommend trying too hard to understand female desire/attraction. I arrived where I began in believing that female sexual attraction is inexplicably emotional.
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IvoryFuta-II said:
If you mean " BBW " for the most part that's just guys lowering their standards because they're not pretty or charismatic enough to attract anything above a 4
I respectfully disagree with this. I mean there are guys that lower their standards to be with fat girls that they are not attracted to it happens all the time. But those guys are not the same guys hanging around in bbw fetish communities or the guys watching bbw porn, or looking at drawn bbw hentai, or the guys "fawning" over bbw online like OP is talking about
BoyBoyMcgee said:
So you're saying just being slightly chubby isn't attractive? I'd need to achieve a "dad-bod" to be desired?
Ivory is being unhelpful. But its important to note that the people that prefer bbw are a minority, same with the equivalent of women being into bhm (big handsome men). You have appeal its just niche. Hentai for women featuring bhm would be a niche of a niche so its understandable that there is very little of it. While I strongly advocate for everyone to workout a few minutes a day I don't think you have to squeeze out of your current niche into another to be desired.
We Also had a thread here where a non insignificant amount of women expressed their desires for chubbier men and they pretty much described dudes like you.
>inb4 "women on the internett don't exist they are just men"
>inb4 someone says something about never thrusting what women say when they talk about what they are attracted to.
I see enough chubby dudes with gfs to atleast believe there are some girls into that.
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I find people who just choose to be fat so wierd tbh, as someone whove always been underweight. It's not even about being too lazy to work out or whatever, being a skinny NEET who sits on computer all day and doesnt work out requires zero effort, too, so why be fat? It actually takes more effort to get off the computer and walk to the fridge to get something to eat...
I'm pursuing the hentai hunk physique, and I can personally attest women do not give a shit about muscles past a certain point. The ripped 6 pack guy with bulging biceps whose tren intake is higher than his water intake? That's a male fantasy. The meme of getting shredded and only getting compliments from guys rings true.
Some girls have a fetish for it, but you don't need to have a Greek statue build to get interest from women. All girls like confidence and ambition, and so long as you're putting some effort into your appearance through exercise and self-care, you're already doing more than 90% of guys. Iron your shirt, trim your beard, do your hair and put on a nice cologne, you attract what you emanate.
The thing is that being fat usually comes from a set of poor life decisions and therefore is generally associated with low self-esteem and self-control. I see plenty of guys with way more physically attractive girlfriends, no matter their height or build, it's all about the person they are and the energy they put in. When I tell you "go to the gym" it's not because I want you to become Arnold, I just want you happier and more confident and that's only ever gonna come from within, not a partner.
BlutWieEisen said:
I'm pursuing the hentai hunk physique, and I can personally attest women do not give a shit about muscles past a certain point. The ripped 6 pack guy with bulging biceps whose tren intake is higher than his water intake? That's a male fantasy. The meme of getting shredded and only getting compliments from guys rings true.
Some girls have a fetish for it, but you don't need to have a Greek statue build to get interest from women. All girls like confidence and ambition, and so long as you're putting some effort into your appearance through exercise and self-care, you're already doing more than 90% of guys. Iron your shirt, trim your beard, do your hair and put on a nice cologne, you attract what you emanate.
The thing is that being fat usually comes from a set of poor life decisions and therefore is generally associated with low self-esteem and self-control. I see plenty of guys with way more physically attractive girlfriends, no matter their height or build, it's all about the person they are and the energy they put in. When I tell you "go to the gym" it's not because I want you to become Arnold, I just want you happier and more confident and that's only ever gonna come from within, not a partner.
Be trim, have lats and deltoids per muscles
BoyBoyMcgee said:
As a guy on the chubbier side who doesn't pack much, I'm always curious why there seems to be such a lack for people of my body type, yet gals with extra meat in them are so fawned over. Picking people's brains about this stuff kinda fascinates me
Well do you have a big butt, like the girls you've mentioned, or boobas?
IvoryFuta-II said:
Wider hips & Extra ass is sexy and makes people's ape brains go " Awooga "
Being Skinny-fat is not.Luckily for you women like " dad-bods " ( strong upper body, little bit of gut fat - they're poorly describing bulked guys ) so 2 weeks in the gym will make you desirable.
If you mean " BBW " for the most part that's just guys lowering their standards because they're not pretty or charismatic enough to attract anything above a 4 ( they also tend to make up for their eating habits with a good personality )
what you talking about, skinny boys are cute af!
Race_Traitor_Teacher said:
what you talking about, skinny boys are cute af!
" Skinny fat " Refers to a body type where the fat has all gone to the stomach ( and maybe a little to the ass ) and nowhere else ( so they still have twigs for arms and legs ) when i use that term i do NOT mean the local skeleton.
Anyhow unless i'm wrong the guy is asking why there's no love for chubby guys ( guys that are a little fat but not the size of a beachball yet ) but women with a little fat are called " curvy " and get a lot of love - which if you ask me is because the extra fat goes to their thighs & ass most of the time which makes them more desirable to guys.
Also in addition to " BBWs " & probably seeing a lot of fat girls with boyfriends that could probably aim higher than them which is either because the guy has lowered his standards or because fat girls tend to make up for their weight by having a joyful personality ( there's also a little " I can fix her! " thrown in there as well since some guys get with decent looking fat girls in hopes they can drag them to the gym and turn a 5 into an 8 )
fkiblaze said:
I find people who just choose to be fat so wierd tbh, as someone whove always been underweight. It's not even about being too lazy to work out or whatever, being a skinny NEET who sits on computer all day and doesnt work out requires zero effort, too, so why be fat? It actually takes more effort to get off the computer and walk to the fridge to get something to eat...
Because you need food to survive????? The biggest issue (I've seen, I might be entirely wrong..) with fat people is portion control. Instead of eating three small meals we'll eat one gigantic meal and nothing else along the day. This is absolutely horrible for your system..
BoyBoyMcgee said:
So you're saying just being slightly chubby isn't attractive? I'd need to achieve a "dad-bod" to be desired?
No? If you're just "slightly chubby" then you're average.. then you're not a chubby man and then you're not what we (the niche that likes chubby/large/bhm) want.. because you're just a normal guy.... Then you shouldn't have an issue attracting women because y'know..... You're a normal guy..... 🤸
LatinaOfHearts said:
Because you need food to survive????? The biggest issue (I've seen, I might be entirely wrong..) with fat people is portion control. Instead of eating three small meals we'll eat one gigantic meal and nothing else along the day. This is absolutely horrible for your system..
I mean, i have heard that eating one big meal vs 3 smaller meals slows down ur metabolism, but ive tried it several times before to try to gain some more weight since usually im slightly underweight, but it's still not enough to gain more than like 5-10 pounds. Fat people must have to eat like thousands of calories at once, at which point isnt that obvious?
fkiblaze said:
I mean, i have heard that eating one big meal vs 3 smaller meals slows down ur metabolism, but ive tried it several times before to try to gain some more weight since usually im slightly underweight, but it's still not enough to gain more than like 5-10 pounds. Fat people must have to eat like thousands of calories at once, at which point isnt that obvious?
Yeah again, it depends what a "big meal" is for you. I'm referring to a plate FULL of food. Again, tons of fat people underestimate the amount of food we truly consume, even if it's all healthy. Plus, if you're underweight it's definitely because of a combination of fast metabolism + not enough food
