irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
well see cuckolding where the guy not crying Assume the crying one is the guys imagine themselves the bull who conquer this weak simp
If they imagine it the guy, they like the femdom aspect and humiliation.. Would they want something like that in real life probably not The same way people can watch kidnap fantasy but not want to kidnap anyone or be kidnapped Or rape fantasies
always assume part of blacked fantasy, is thinking the most humiliating thing that can happen if your wife does something like fuck a black guy, because they find that degrading.. Since there some that feel that the worst person you can fuck. Same as "Oh no my step mom fucked my Bully" or my wife fucked my Jerk boss
irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
It's like asking why some people find bestiality or piss and stuff hot. Some people just get so coom brained that they need something disgusting or degrading to get off. It's not some logical thing, it's just essentially like a drug user, "it just makes them feel horny".
irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
Cuckqueaning is more geared towards women thus it's more emotional whereas with guys thier porn is more physical. The romantic component isn't really mandatory for guys - if the bull has cucked someone the cuck's pride, honor and dignity as a man has been assaulted, he has been demasculated , the fact the guy who's cucking them *doesn't even love the woman* and just sees them as an object only drives the stake in further.
I can get why a masochist would love being cucked in that way, it humilates so many aspects about them without saying a word I can see why a sadist would love cucking , it humilates the sub in so many different ways without saying a word and they get a sexy ragdoll to use and abuse.
For the girl in the scenario it's usually the switch aspect - they can submit to an " alpha " sadist that will treat them as nothing more than a sex slave and demasculate, humilate and feminize the sub when the " bull " isn't in the mood.
I think the problem with people's perspective on NTR is that they only ever consider it from the sub's POV since primarily that's who the NTR is made for however it makes sense as to why people would like it as a dominant or switch , the fact it's such a social taboo and understood wrong also adds to it which is part of the reason it confuses me as to how so many people actively HATE it despite having similar kinks - it's common for ERPers to have a rape fetish but god forbid you roleplay a conensual NTR scene with a willing cuck without you being juged or looked at like a monster for having the kink.
Cuckqueaning is more geared towards women thus it's more emotional whereas with guys thier porn is more physical. The romantic component isn't really mandatory for guys - if the bull has cucked someone the cuck's pride, honor and dignity as a man has been assaulted, he has been demasculated , the fact the guy who's cucking them *doesn't even love the woman* and just sees them as an object only drives the stake in further.
I can get why a masochist would love being cucked in that way, it humilates so many aspects about them without saying a word I can see why a sadist would love cucking , it humilates the sub in so many different ways without saying a word and they get a sexy ragdoll to use and abuse.
For the girl in the scenario it's usually the switch aspect - they can submit to an " alpha " sadist that will treat them as nothing more than a sex slave and demasculate, humilate and feminize the sub when the " bull " isn't in the mood.
I think the problem with people's perspective on NTR is that they only ever consider it from the sub's POV since primarily that's who the NTR is made for however it makes sense as to why people would like it as a dominant or switch , the fact it's such a social taboo and understood wrong also adds to it which is part of the reason it confuses me as to how so many people actively HATE it despite having similar kinks - it's common for ERPers to have a rape fetish but god forbid you roleplay a conensual NTR scene with a willing cuck without you being juged or looked at like a monster for having the kink.
i dont ERP so wouldnt know, but do people really get so butthurt over it compared to every other wierd kink? Like i personally see things like monster rape and so on as similar to NTR, so i just figure it's popular enough people are use to it.
I think the problem with people's perspective on NTR is that they only ever consider it from the sub's POV since primarily that's who the NTR is made for
Yeah maybe I would enjoy NTR more if it wasn't always filmed/drawn/listened from the cuck's POV. It's like a 20 to 1 ratio, good luck finding any porn where it's shown from the bull's perspective
irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
It's pure humiliation. The woman gives her body to the superior man and he fucks her far better than the cuck ever did. I don't watch that stuff but I assume the girl is loud on purpose just to taunt the cuck because he never fucked her like that.
-So the girl is betraying and humiliating her bf/husband, but there's more. -The bull, more often than not, doesn't have any love or respect for the woman, she's just being used, maybe hurt, maybe raped. His woman is getting soiled and maybe impregnated in front of him. -After the creampie, the cuck licks her clean. I don't think I need to explain why it's the most humiliating thing you can do to a man's pride and masculinity... I mean shit, I don't even have the words to try to explain it. I don't know if you, as a woman, are able to imagine what it would be like. -What can you do to make it even more worse? That's right. Make the guy disgusting: make the bull an ugly bastard or a black and it's even worse now.
Now you know why NTR, bbc and blacks are almost always together. Because the goal is to be a disgusting and humiliating as possible.
I had no idea cuckqueen stuff was that different tbh. I've tried to find cuckqueen stuff but couldn't find anything, so I don't know a lot about them
I had no idea cuckqueen stuff was that different tbh. I've tried to find cuckqueen stuff but couldn't find anything, so I don't know a lot about them
cuckqueen stuff when done right tends to be the opposite of NTR cuck stuff. As you pointed out, while male cuck stuff is about being humiliating, disgusting and emasculating, cuckqueen is like the man is such an alpha stud that he gets more women. So the man is given more pride, dignity, and swagger and then the cuckqueen woman, being his woman is like the "queen" hence the term, married to the chad king. Of course that's just the general version, in OPs case they are a lesbian so it's different since it's not about "her man getting other women".
irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
I can only speak about my own experience, basically cuck shit begins when you couple deeply rooted insecurities with porn addiction. Being porn addicted means you will move from one porn category to another to get that dopamine hit, because one type of porn becomes boring at one point and you start searching for something more edgy, more shocking to give you that high, and this will inevitably lead to cuck porn. Now, I've always been insecure about a lot of things, and even though i used to feel a lot like you about it, confused, disgusted and heartbroken that such a thing exists, and more precisely that it is often directed towards people like me, that is , shy, nerdy, not very masculine guys, it kinda started to haunt me and take my insecurities and anxieties regarding relationships to an even worse state. I still hate cuck shit and realise how sad horrifying it is, but sadly at one point i reached a level of complete demoralization and, when you get horny...congratulations, you unlocked a new fetish.
Now it feels impossible to cure myself of it, even though I tried multiple times and have had some improvements here and there, but i always end up coming back to it. It's so addictive, precisely because it hits you where it hurts. It's humiliating and evil. It's crazy when I think about it, that one of the things that used to make me want end myself in my younger years is now one of the things that turns me on the most. It's terrible to love something that slowly destroys you, I don't wouldn't wish for anyone to go through this kind of thing. It basically hijacked my mind, even though I resisted it for so long.
I can only speak about my own experience, basically cuck shit begins when you couple deeply rooted insecurities with porn addiction. Being porn addicted means you will move from one porn category to another to get that dopamine hit, because one type of porn becomes boring at one point and you start searching for something more edgy, more shocking to give you that high, and this will inevitably lead to cuck porn. Now, I've always been insecure about a lot of things, and even though i used to feel a lot like you about it, confused, disgusted and heartbroken that such a thing exists, and more precisely that it is often directed towards people like me, that is , shy, nerdy, not very masculine guys, it kinda started to haunt me and take my insecurities and anxieties regarding relationships to an even worse state. I still hate cuck shit and realise how sad horrifying it is, but sadly at one point i reached a level of complete demoralization and, when you get horny...congratulations, you unlocked a new fetish.
Now it feels impossible to cure myself of it, even though I tried multiple times and have had some improvements here and there, but i always end up coming back to it. It's so addictive, precisely because it hits you where it hurts. It's humiliating and evil. It's crazy when I think about it, that one of the things that used to make me want end myself in my younger years is now one of the things that turns me on the most. It's terrible to love something that slowly destroys you, I don't wouldn't wish for anyone to go through this kind of thing. It basically hijacked my mind, even though I resisted it for so long.
That was hard to read... I don't know what to recommend other than looking for the extreme opposite: praise, worship, loving wife or girlfriend roleplay
That was hard to read... I don't know what to recommend other than looking for the extreme opposite: praise, worship, loving wife or girlfriend roleplay
many such cases of porn messing up people's brains. I think ironicly the best cure is just to do what made you switch to it in the first place, just fap enough to it stress free that u get bored and want to move onto a new fetish.
irl im a cuckqueen my gf has been fucked by mqny guys and girls while i wat, and im perfectly fine with that and tbh really like it. when i look at cuckquean content online i see the same kind of stuff, but then i look at guys cuckold content just like it confuses me. the guy is cheated on and left sobbing, and normally hes really cute too! like why would you want that? theres no love between the guy and the girl she just chooses the "manlier" guy and that just makes me sad af. Im honestly just curiou as to why someone would want that? im not kinkshaming im really just curiose, like why?
Probably, most people looking for it is not actually in the kink itself but just on the side ”steal the girl", as just "get the girl", and the guy left sobbing is just something left on the frame.
Then a network effect pushes away people who are genuinely in the cuckold kink but don't like the overexposure of the ntr.
i dont ERP so wouldnt know, but do people really get so butthurt over it compared to every other wierd kink? Like i personally see things like monster rape and so on as similar to NTR, so i just figure it's popular enough people are use to it.
I ERP mainly on discord so I don't know what it's like on other hubs for erpers like telegram or Fchat but on discord servers most of the time NTR is a banned kink in the rules and if it isn't it's only really mentioned by the rare ad looking for an NTR plot here and there - if you're someone who actively roleplays NTR and are known in the server ( I.E an regularly post in hentai channels or are a daily chatter ) people start to resent you for it. There are a handful of other kinks that will get this treatment too but it's weird that people are fine with other taboo kinks like incest & Raceplay ( it's more on the " uncommon " side but every so often you'll see a user with a spade in their username ) but hate cheating to this degree - like NTR is almost universally hated
I ERP mainly on discord so I don't know what it's like on other hubs for erpers like telegram or Fchat but on discord servers most of the time NTR is a banned kink in the rules and if it isn't it's only really mentioned by the rare ad looking for an NTR plot here and there - if you're someone who actively roleplays NTR and are known in the server ( I.E an regularly post in hentai channels or are a daily chatter ) people start to resent you for it. There are a handful of other kinks that will get this treatment too but it's weird that people are fine with other taboo kinks like incest & Raceplay ( it's more on the " uncommon " side but every so often you'll see a user with a spade in their username ) but hate cheating to this degree - like NTR is almost universally hated
That's kinda wierd since i just sometimes browse the ERP thread here and so many people like a long ass list of degenerate stuff, so i figured it was the same on discord, especially since it's discord so filled with porn addled tranny groomers.
I can only speak about my own experience, basically cuck shit begins when you couple deeply rooted insecurities with porn addiction. Being porn addicted means you will move from one porn category to another to get that dopamine hit, because one type of porn becomes boring at one point and you start searching for something more edgy, more shocking to give you that high, and this will inevitably lead to cuck porn. Now, I've always been insecure about a lot of things, and even though i used to feel a lot like you about it, confused, disgusted and heartbroken that such a thing exists, and more precisely that it is often directed towards people like me, that is , shy, nerdy, not very masculine guys, it kinda started to haunt me and take my insecurities and anxieties regarding relationships to an even worse state. I still hate cuck shit and realise how sad horrifying it is, but sadly at one point i reached a level of complete demoralization and, when you get horny...congratulations, you unlocked a new fetish.
Now it feels impossible to cure myself of it, even though I tried multiple times and have had some improvements here and there, but i always end up coming back to it. It's so addictive, precisely because it hits you where it hurts. It's humiliating and evil. It's crazy when I think about it, that one of the things that used to make me want end myself in my younger years is now one of the things that turns me on the most. It's terrible to love something that slowly destroys you, I don't wouldn't wish for anyone to go through this kind of thing. It basically hijacked my mind, even though I resisted it for so long.
I think the actual best cure for a kink degenerate fetish eating away at you is to identity exactly what makes you feel inadequate or anxious (or whatever, maybe you have a weird fetish for musk or bbws and you notice you’re a slob irl, maybe clean yourself up). You said you are shy, nerdy and not very masculine. Maybe you should try and alter that. You don’t have to become gigachad, or change dramatically, simply be a slight bit more outgoing and sociable in your ordinary day, and maybe get into fitness and find a hobby that’s a little hands on, this’ll give you the feeling of being more masculine without pretending to be some kind of fake alpha male chad bro idiot.
Who knows, doing these things might relieve that feeling of inadequacy and anxiety that ntr likely preys on and the next time you find yourself horny (and stupid) , you might actually feel a lot more disgusted at the prospect that someone like you (who by that point I assume is more confident, less nerdy, and more masculine in a healthy normal way) is somehow the target audience of fake porn. Don’t try and do it all at once too, take little steps and don’t bash yourself for failing or succumbing to watching something bad for you, this happens in all things, such as failing a diet or failing at anything in life. Why do we fail? So we can try again. Why do we fall? So we can get back up.
Remember ntr and cuckold porn may as well all be propaganda and is most certainly staged most of the time if not outright fake. So always keep it at the back of your mind that it’s made with the intention of corrupting you. My thing when browsing porn and I see something like ntr/cuck or blacked or anything like that I just think to myself “that’s gay, it’s for gays, I’m not gay I’ll pass” and it works not because I hate gay people but because I am not gay, and I just use gay as a general insult. You can call it stupid or whatever it doesn’t matter. Generally a good idea when combating addictions and mental health issues is to get healthy in other ways, such as physically healthy or spiritually healthy.
I think the actual best cure for a kink degenerate fetish eating away at you is to identity exactly what makes you feel inadequate or anxious (or whatever, maybe you have a weird fetish for musk or bbws and you notice you’re a slob irl, maybe clean yourself up). You said you are shy, nerdy and not very masculine. Maybe you should try and alter that. You don’t have to become gigachad, or change dramatically, simply be a slight bit more outgoing and sociable in your ordinary day, and maybe get into fitness and find a hobby that’s a little hands on, this’ll give you the feeling of being more masculine without pretending to be some kind of fake alpha male chad bro idiot.
Who knows, doing these things might relieve that feeling of inadequacy and anxiety that ntr likely preys on and the next time you find yourself horny (and stupid) , you might actually feel a lot more disgusted at the prospect that someone like you (who by that point I assume is more confident, less nerdy, and more masculine in a healthy normal way) is somehow the target audience of fake porn. Don’t try and do it all at once too, take little steps and don’t bash yourself for failing or succumbing to watching something bad for you, this happens in all things, such as failing a diet or failing at anything in life. Why do we fail? So we can try again. Why do we fall? So we can get back up.
Thanks a lot man. I already started working out more and fapping less and it really helps a lot, though i really can't shake the feeling that i'll never be enough, despite all my efforts. I think i'll be fine though. This site helps me a lot, it's like a shining star in a dark void of blacked garbage, it really saves me from becoming fully insane. The next step i guess would be to stop using reddit and twitter, because they're fake and filled with terrible people.
Remember ntr and cuckold porn may as well all be propaganda and is most certainly staged most of the time if not outright fake. So always keep it at the back of your mind that it’s made with the intention of corrupting you. My thing when browsing porn and I see something like ntr/cuck or blacked or anything like that I just think to myself “that’s gay, it’s for gays, I’m not gay I’ll pass” and it works not because I hate gay people but because I am not gay, and I just use gay as a general insult. You can call it stupid or whatever it doesn’t matter. Generally a good idea when combating addictions and mental health issues is to get healthy in other ways, such as physically healthy or spiritually healthy.
Yeah, this actually sounds a lot like how I think about the whole thing, i am aware of how fake and astroturfed all this bullshit is, i'm aware of how rotten the people that push blacked shit really are, and have even seen them getting exposed quite a lot, it's kinda interesting. I think what made me susceptible to this shit in the first place is the fact that i was already into things like futanari and femdom so i feel like that kinda primed me for my ultimate descent into cuck shit. Though i am well aware that this blacked cuck thing is basically like a meeting place for closeted gay dudes of all races, really, I've seen their masks slip multiple times and in all kinds of ways. Ultimately, this is one of the things i really hate about blacked/bnwo stuff, it infects other fetishes that I enjoy. All they have to do is inject one black dude and go all ''muh bbc'' or put a shitty spade tattoo on your favorite girl and boom, your porn is ruined. It fits in nearly any scenario.
Thanks a lot man. I already started working out more and fapping less and it really helps a lot, though i really can't shake the feeling that i'll never be enough, despite all my efforts. I think i'll be fine though. This site helps me a lot, it's like a shining star in a dark void of blacked garbage, it really saves me from becoming fully insane. The next step i guess would be to stop using reddit and twitter, because they're fake and filled with terrible people.
Yeah, this actually sounds a lot like how I think about the whole thing, i am aware of how fake and astroturfed all this bullshit is, i'm aware of how rotten the people that push blacked shit really are, and have even seen them getting exposed quite a lot, it's kinda interesting. I think what made me susceptible to this shit in the first place is the fact that i was already into things like futanari and femdom so i feel like that kinda primed me for my ultimate descent into cuck shit. Though i am well aware that this blacked cuck thing is basically like a meeting place for closeted gay dudes of all races, really, I've seen their masks slip multiple times and in all kinds of ways. Ultimately, this is one of the things i really hate about blacked/bnwo stuff, it infects other fetishes that I enjoy. All they have to do is inject one black dude and go all ''muh bbc'' or put a shitty spade tattoo on your favorite girl and boom, your porn is ruined. It fits in nearly any scenario.
Glad I can help. And yes, quitting sites like Reddit and Twitter/X will help, I don’t use Twitter ever, and I only ever use Reddit for when I look up somethin I don’t know and there happens to be a Reddit thread for it (most of the time though it’s useless still, cause redditors don’t know what they’re talking about). I used to be like you a bit, I liked futa and a bit of alternative fetishes, and initially I didn’t really care when black men were featured in porn pmvs of whatever I was watching at the time but then it got so bad and so frequent and intense with the push for blacked that I got sick of it, and found this place. Now I don’t hate futa or some fetishes for what they are, but I try to limit my exposure and fapping to them because I know they prime you for truly subversive fetishes like ntr and blacked. I think it’s because of the shock factor innate to those other fetishes (like futa) that it numbs you to the very bad ones (like blacked).
