fkiblaze said:
One again that is common and a fair thing to say, but the thing is though, practicaly everyone has issues. Almost no relationship is perfect, so that isn't really an excuse. there are litteraly murders, people who beat women every time they get mad at their gf, rapists, and so on that all manage to get relationships, marriages and kids and do fine. "Issues" arent actually a problem in normie life to be successful. Pretty much every succesful person in modern society anyway is a psychopathic machevelian.
Yes getting a gf doesnt always help, but only because they will still have the issues that caused them not to have a gf, and the girl will get fed up with him and leave or no longer love him.
This mentality may have been true in the past, but the reality of modern society isnt some lighthearted fantasy. You can litteraly do everything morally wrong and still fall upwards. Look at any shitty corrupt politician. The most effective way to be successful is to be a ruthless ambitious psychopath, baring that the best you can be is just an unthinking normie. That is, if you care more about worldly success than your soul, but i wouldnt recommend that to anyone because as the bible says, "what does it profit a man to gain the world but lose his soul?"
Honestly I am just going to tap out of this conversation. Because I am not sure if am making myself understood or if I am truly understanding your central argument. Either way it seems we are not going to get much out of this. I also disagree with most of what you said in your previous reply to the point where I would not know where to begin and it is getting quite late.
I do think we have different views on what success is and what constitutes a "successful" relationship and what constitutes success in general and with such different values I think that this conversation with you is ultimately pointless.