LatinaOfHearts said:
Yeah exactly, "tomboy" nowadays is just lingo for "extremely feminine girl with slightly short hair that watches F1 and drinks beer occasionally and will sometimes put on my shirts" there's nothing wrong with wanting something like that but it's just not a "tomboy" I like to help my dad with mechanic stuff, I like to fish and play in the mud with my younger family members (cousins and stuff) and this is the reality of a lot of women, not just me.
Yeah that's true too, I remember I once invited a guy over to play games together and when he heard me screaming at people in the lobby (I rage, like literally anyone) he said that I was behaving in a "disgusting way" and that he wanted to leave. It's completely mental how fetishes can impact the way we see people and certain behaviors.
That's basically stated/claimed vs actual(I forgot the word but same thing) preferences. (I don't know if it's correct but if it isn't, please correct me)
Let's say there's this guy who likes muscular girls because he saw some in anime or TikTok that he found attractive; He states that he likes muscular girls but when he goes outside or goes to the gym, he finds irl muscular girls uninteresting or repulsive. It's like how one can say "I like Asian food, it's delicious, I eat all" but then they only eat Korean or Japanese food (it's always either those two in those scenarios)
But I agree, fetishes/porn can really change a man more than anything, that's why I want to restrict myself from porn because that stuff's a brain changer and can make you miserable as well as have physical effects on you like low sex drive and depression. Can also destroy quality of life and relationships. It can also warp people's views on things like how some guys see tomboys like you said.
Egors said:
Yeah I try to rage less in my games because it lower your performance in game. Emotions cloud your thinking ability. But sometimes situations in games are just outrageous like someone have perfect timing on you or something lucky happens which help your opponent. I'm not saying raging is tomboy thing or masculine it's just normal thing. Some people rage some not. I don't mind it if someone rage during gaming and it's weird to think like only males can rage.
Fat_white_cock said:
Tbh we are all humans, and rage is a human emotion, and also that's why i mostly stick with causal gaming and single player games, less hassle, lots of fun if you find the game that suits your tastes, besides, and i am speaking for myself, am finding myself drawn more towards training, i find it more rewarding than serious/competitive gaming and raging at it, i have damaged stuff with my rage, so i said "Never again", best decision i ever made
Yeah and long term rage can basically fuck up your health physically (high risk of heart attacks and stress) and mentally (high risk of depression or feeling shitty in general). There's people who are more sensitive and they'll be prone to raging and others are not. Some cases are inevitable to rage no matter what like what Egors said and for example, you kept getting shitty rolls in gacha games or you can't defeat the final boss even with maxed out equipment and best strategies.
I think the reason why people think dudes are more likely to rage is because they have high testosterone and hormones basically mess with people's emotions. Guy with low T will probably do more crying than rage. Girls do rage, they have estrogen and it makes them prone to emotional outbursts. As for FTMs, the more T they take, the more their aggression is like of a guy's.
That's why I tend to avoid multiplayer/online games (aside from second hand nervousness on my part) unless it lets me play with people locally as in person A and person B brings their controllers and play with me in person. When I do want to rage, I just try to keep it down if it happens though I don't really care semi-mostly but for the most part, I just play single player games and call it a day.
