I think a lot of subs here do love being dominated and even abused. But what Ivory misses is that they (sometimes) also crave aftercare. It’s an essential aspect of sex where after the deed is done, the dom reassures and comforts the sub (that’s putting it very simply, it’s more like post-foreplay). I feel like people that come from or dislike blacked despite engaging with it, disdain it for the reason that niggers (even if it’s just people erping as niggers or artists depicting niggers) don’t do any kind of aftercare, or any kind of kindness/reassurance. It’s just the rough, crude/humiliating sex and then it’s done, after awhile that’ll get boring no matter how much you try and put a spin on it.
There’s no nuance to it, no real emotionality or passion behind it, no meaning. Bleached is different, I feel.