somebleacheduser said:
If I remembered correctly, there's girls who are into swirling dunno the demographics but I think theyre usually black girls from Caribbean, Haiti, Africa, and other places like those, there's some western black women in there. Sure, those women aren't going to wear bleached merch (thinking of bleached merch, that sounds dope and should be a thing, expect a thread if allowed) or have bleached tattoos in public but they're out there. But some of them do have to hide it or keep it a secret because they dont want to disappoint their parents (although I find it weird because iirc some black women's/girl's parents try to encourage them to bring home a white guy but all parents are different), stigma, or their men find the woman dating a white guy as a threat and may possibly threaten either the bf, her, or both.
There's this black girl in the bleached space that said that she felt frustrated because people had a problem with her liking white men and her being in bleached spaces, she also said that it's hypocritical for white/nonblack women to enjoy any guy but if a black woman likes white men, they get ostracized and I agree with her frustration and I feel her. It's extremely hypocritical for white and nonblack women to enjoy any fetish they like like the ones you listed and people don't really care yet the second a black woman shows any interest in white men or like bleached, people get pissed and say "bed wrench", "pick-me", etc to the black woman.
The black woman should be free to date the white guy if she likes to without problems and not care about the hater's opinions because it's her life and she can date as many white men as she wants or even go white boys only, no one is in control of her life except herself.
Seriously, we need loud and proud bleached girls who love white men and doesn't care about what haters say. Bonus if she actually wears bleached merch in public, it's optional but it can help the bleached movement.
Quick note: What I meant by bleached merch is like "I love white boys" or something that is worksafe. Add a Queen of Hearts necklace on top and have a heart theme. There's people who are open furries, there's people who wear political slogans, and there's the meme people who wear memes and whatnot, if people are okay with the 3 examples, they should also be okay with girls wearing "I Love White Boys" shirts.
This is fantastic, we need this to push the cultural conversation in the direction we want.