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Egors said:

I just read article from 9th of December last year which said I could apply for engineering visa for 5 years and if I would live there for like 8-10 years I could apply for permanent residency. I don't know how hard would be to get citizenship, but just permanent stay would be good enough to live there and stay without any worries. I would work in different field. I didn't decided on my path yet, but it's going to be related to IT. I'm kind of torn apart being software developer, things related to web development and jobs like Data Scientist. My master thesis is going to be related to cryptography and cyber security. I'm not sure about moving to Japan yet, but from all options we talked about on forums in various topics this one seem most reasonable for me.

It's worth a try, but also id like to point out just cause you can apply doesnt mean you will be accepted.

fkiblaze said:

It's worth a try, but also id like to point out just cause you can apply doesnt mean you will be accepted.

I would need to find company that would hire me so I could show contract and from what I read length of visa depends on reliability of company too. So I could end up getting 1 year visa which I would need to extend and extend. Still I have a bit of time before I would do it. I'm not 100% sure about choosing Japan. I would be fine with any decent country without politics trying to destroy it from inside, that would let me earn money, work hard for them and hopefully have my own family.

Egors said:

I would need to find company that would hire me so I could show contract and from what I read length of visa depends on reliability of company too. So I could end up getting 1 year visa which I would need to extend and extend. Still I have a bit of time before I would do it. I'm not 100% sure about choosing Japan. I would be fine with any decent country without politics trying to destroy it from inside, that would let me earn money, work hard for them and hopefully have my own family.

Japan is definitly the best in that regard for a country. Maybe cause you are in europe you can do switzerland though. It's probably the best euro country. Other than that there are a few conservative states in USA that are ok.

fkiblaze said:

Japan is definitly the best in that regard for a country. Maybe cause you are in europe you can do switzerland though. It's probably the best euro country. Other than that there are a few conservative states in USA that are ok.

Switzerland would be bit difficult. I'm not really good with German language. I had it in school and best I can do is tell my name, where I live and I know some words. I'm not sure about USA it would be nice at least my somewhat good English would become better by living there and using it everyday. Well to be honest I have strong preference towards Asian woman so I'd love to live in such country. I will have some time now so I could do some research though it's kind of difficult because each youtube video about like Japan or South Korea will probably tell like "sure it's okay as foreign man you will be able to have chances with our woman" etc. would be nice to get some more reliable information maybe from someone who was there and don't really want views and likes.

Just read the whole thread. Some thoughts not to rehash or anything.
Yeah being an autistic white guy is hard. Not picking up on things intill you're thinking about it later or others pointing things out that you're entirely oblivious too and expected too see it. I think I could be seen as "child like" when I go over interests/hobbies, or at the very least quite enthusiastic which I know turns women away.

As for Balkin/ Eastern Europe chicks i've been told most are liberal fuckwads, and the ones who are trad want other people of their culture. best bet is women from SEA, and latinias. I know latinas tend to be more conservative and most filipinas know English and there are is chunk of them chronically online.

Flamberge said:

Just read the whole thread. Some thoughts not to rehash or anything.
Yeah being an autistic white guy is hard. Not picking up on things intill you're thinking about it later or others pointing things out that you're entirely oblivious too and expected too see it. I think I could be seen as "child like" when I go over interests/hobbies, or at the very least quite enthusiastic which I know turns women away.

As for Balkin/ Eastern Europe chicks i've been told most are liberal fuckwads, and the ones who are trad want other people of their culture. best bet is women from SEA, and latinias. I know latinas tend to be more conservative and most filipinas know English and there are is chunk of them chronically online.

My main problem with latinas is based on what i see they almost all seem even more crazy than white women. Not so much in terms of the LGBT stuff, but in terms of just being screaming and nagging harpies. But maybe this is just like certain hispanic countries.

fkiblaze said:

My main problem with latinas is based on what i see they almost all seem even more crazy than white women. Not so much in terms of the LGBT stuff, but in terms of just being screaming and nagging harpies. But maybe this is just like certain hispanic countries.

Yeah thats the problem is most arnt quiet, and can be verbally or physically abusive. On the otherhand most want you to manhandle them.

fkiblaze said:

My main problem with latinas is based on what i see they almost all seem even more crazy than white women. Not so much in terms of the LGBT stuff, but in terms of just being screaming and nagging harpies. But maybe this is just like certain hispanic countries.

That's the stereotype, and to be entirely honest (which might not be the best route to take since I'm shooting myself in the foot) it's somewhat true, but there's a catch.. it's only towards Latino men. We don't behave like that with white men, "we" slap, bite, kick, scream, nag etc. ("We" in brackets cause I don't do that) When we're married to other Latinos since they tend to be actually pretty bad people and even worse men. I've never seen a Latina act this way towards a white man tho.. I've seen them curse at them and get into fights (hell, I did that too) but never beating them or being overly jealous.

LatinaOfHearts said:

That's the stereotype, and to be entirely honest (which might not be the best route to take since I'm shooting myself in the foot) it's somewhat true, but there's a catch.. it's only towards Latino men. We don't behave like that with white men, "we" slap, bite, kick, scream, nag etc. ("We" in brackets cause I don't do that) When we're married to other Latinos since they tend to be actually pretty bad people and even worse men. I've never seen a Latina act this way towards a white man tho.. I've seen them curse at them and get into fights (hell, I did that too) but never beating them or being overly jealous.

That is a decent point. Latino men are probably more abusive so it's probably less with a man who knows how to deal with emotional women rather than abuse them making it worse. Asian women as a sterotype seem to be more docile and quiet which is why some white men seem more attracted to them.

somebleacheduser said:

True. They only like those guys because they're autistic and "bad boy" but correct term is edgy (To me, it's more of edgy than being thuggish or gangster). There's dude that basically think they're cool and may relate to them though they're not the romance type unless the criminal is some edgy 4chanite femcel girl.

That's also true, a lot of guys like autistic girls because they're not as basic and most are socially awkward and again, the loyalty aspect.

I put that there because I mostly witness crazy BPD girls over any depressed one, don't forget they push that everywhere too.

Going back to topic: Where does one even find autistic people nowadays other than 4chan and here? Autism forums are dead or liberal biased and most places are not autism friendly or are far away.

Ypu can find autistic people on Twitter(most people who arent bots are autistic as hell) as well as instagram reels and even tiktok

LatinaWhiteBoyLover204 said:

Ypu can find autistic people on Twitter(most people who arent bots are autistic as hell) as well as instagram reels and even tiktok

True but the real question is whether they're actually autistic or they're only "autistic" because it's "cool"/"losercore"/"quirky"/person says "I'm hella/a little autistic" when he's just crazy with no mental illness whatsoever because a lot of people pretty much glorify it and make it aesthetic for some reason when that's basically a real condition that can make things harder or easier for people depending on their functioning.

somebleacheduser said:

True but the real question is whether they're actually autistic or they're only "autistic" because it's "cool"/"losercore"/"quirky"/person says "I'm hella/a little autistic" when he's just crazy with no mental illness whatsoever because a lot of people pretty much glorify it and make it aesthetic for some reason when that's basically a real condition that can make things harder or easier for people depending on their functioning.

Yeah, I really hate the glorification of ASD it really undermines what people go through. I find the most harsh to people with ASD can be the leftie spaces, and they're often tools for them too :(

fkiblaze said:

That is a decent point. Latino men are probably more abusive so it's probably less with a man who knows how to deal with emotional women rather than abuse them making it worse. Asian women as a sterotype seem to be more docile and quiet which is why some white men seem more attracted to them.

Yeah they are, they drink excessively, they cheat, they arrive late, they have no qualms about putting their hands on even their own mothers etc. So it's only fair that a woman strikes back after her husband has previously beat her within an inch of her life. I get why they do it, but it's causing us a lot of bad reputation. As for white men preferring Asian girls, it's not only to do with the "docile and quiet" part, they're also more physically attractive.. that's it.. they're skinner, smaller, with more attractive factions and proportions than us. They were made and bred to be pretty, we were made to have babies.

Flamberge said:

Yeah, I really hate the glorification of ASD it really undermines what people go through. I find the most harsh to people with ASD can be the leftie spaces, and they're often tools for them too :(

They glorify fake ASD as cool and quirky but hate actual autistic men in the ones that arent social and actually closely analyze things.

somebleacheduser said:

True but the real question is whether they're actually autistic or they're only "autistic" because it's "cool"/"losercore"/"quirky"/person says "I'm hella/a little autistic" when he's just crazy with no mental illness whatsoever because a lot of people pretty much glorify it and make it aesthetic for some reason when that's basically a real condition that can make things harder or easier for people depending on their functioning.

Not only is the glorification of autism extremely detrimental to society at large, cause it becomes a vicious cycle but on top of it it leads to these groups being extremely closed off from others and thus creating another, more cringy/self deprecating vicious cycle which is just insane. This isn't just the case of "autism glorification" it's the case of depression/BPD/NPD/psychopathy/LGBTQ/bipolar etc. Glorification.
>People clown on others because they're X thing
>Others start making X thing their whole personality and lumping together
>These behaviors get worse overtime because they're stuck in a echo chamber
Repeat cycle

LatinaOfHearts said:

Yeah they are, they drink excessively, they cheat, they arrive late, they have no qualms about putting their hands on even their own mothers etc. So it's only fair that a woman strikes back after her husband has previously beat her within an inch of her life. I get why they do it, but it's causing us a lot of bad reputation. As for white men preferring Asian girls, it's not only to do with the "docile and quiet" part, they're also more physically attractive.. that's it.. they're skinner, smaller, with more attractive factions and proportions than us. They were made and bred to be pretty, we were made to have babies.

I mean any race of man can do that. Its just that non whites do it alot more often

fkiblaze said:

They glorify fake ASD as cool and quirky but hate actual autistic men in the ones that arent social and actually closely analyze things.

Ppl hate autistic women too y'know.. it's actually biological if I recall correctly. We, "neurotypicals" can sense something is off and feel put off by the behavior of someone autistic like.. almost as a sixth sense that we can't properly control.

fkiblaze said:

They glorify fake ASD as cool and quirky but hate actual autistic men in the ones that arent social and actually closely analyze things.

Yep. I remember in highschool before I became more reclusive the heavy stoner crowd was really nice to me. What they'd do is try to boost the confidence of people they saw with low self esteem. They were really nice.

LatinaWhiteBoyLover204 said:

I mean any race of man can do that. Its just that non whites do it alot more often

Oh yeah I agree, but since it's the ethnic men that do it 99% of the times, the ethnic men get the violent reaction.

LatinaOfHearts said:

Ppl hate autistic women too y'know.. it's actually biological if I recall correctly. We, "neurotypicals" can sense something is off and feel put off by the behavior of someone autistic like.. almost as a sixth sense that we can't properly control.

What the uncanny valley? yeah it is biological.