My girlfriend is black; we've been together for two years.
She's been asking me to call her all the slurs in the book and dominate her, treating her like a slave. She's recently been talking about me screaming at her during sex, saying how I'm going to give her my "superior genes".
Apparently this sort of fetish is a hell of a lot more common than I ever expected among black women. And that was a huge surprise to me.
It's hard, because I don't see her as "less than" me - but SHE wants me to not only treat her as someone who's inferior but actually believe her to be inferior. I don't hit her or abuse her, that's a line I won't cross. However, it sometimes feels that she wants me to actually be racist when I'm repulsed by the idea.
I want to indulge her, but I don't want to actually be cruel.
What's some elements I can incorporate into this lifestyle that would be a good compromise?