fkiblaze said:
well if you noticed the dates, it got necro'd after 3 months. I guess people werent that interested in the original post.
Ah, I did not look at the records. Still kinda funny though.
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Bruh314 said:
Damn, thread for dating advice turned into a geopolitical discussion about the decline of the west within a page. That's gotta be a record.
If you really think about it, if you mix porn, white supremacy/nazism, raceplay, fucking ethnic chicks, politics, etc it's going to be a weird yet pretty funny combination; it's like you're jerking off to either white guys fucking black/brown chicks or Naziplay/WWO while you basically talk about geopolitics at the same time.
somebleacheduser said:
If you really think about it, if you mix porn, white supremacy/nazism, raceplay, fucking ethnic chicks, politics, etc it's going to be a weird yet pretty funny combination; it's like you're jerking off to either white guys fucking black/brown chicks or Naziplay/WWO while you basically talk about geopolitics at the same time.
Well, geopolitics is all about sex too; at least in a power dom/sub kinda way
brogameraccount69420 said:
I made a account just for this.
This is true. Got a new latina girlfiend like 3 weeks ago. We was looking trugh her snap. Bunch of guys. Not a hoe ,dudes are just fucking desperate and girls can get atention there whitout giving any back. Anyway some black guy kept sending her snaps while we were making out. And she was like: i dont know why this dude keeps trying he is not my type. And i asked What her type was. And she quickly and confidently answeared white boys.
My ex was half Hispanic and half Asian. She straight up told me she was interested in pasty lanky white guys but she said it kind of bothered her on a superficial level lol. Like she wishes she was interested in a more "masculine" kind of man. I was super lucky I found her but am glad we split. But regardless, JBW (just be white) is real. Incels might be idiotic 99% of the time, but when they champion JBW, there is some truth to that.
It's really simple.
Be clean, carry yourself well, dress reasonably well, go to the gym and take care of yourself, don't act like an idiot. Be approachable and hold an interesting conversation.
If you're interested in someone find a good lunch spot or coffee place or whatever and invite them to hang out. The more pressure and formality the more awkward it gets, don't be weird; nobody can teach you that.
The more complex you make it, the more trouble you're going to have, a simple plan has fewer failure points.
And I'm not some kind of super Chad with "be yourself" bullshit.
I just have more girls talk to me, or give me their number, etc. when Ive been taken, because Im not being a try hard.
If you can make friends with people, then you can also relate to members of the opposite sex assuming you find each other reasonably attractive and have something in common to start a conversation.
You're going to catch fish out of the water you put your line into, so if you want nerd girls do tabletop, if you want church girls go to church.
I hope this helps.
yarblharbl said:
And I'm not some kind of super Chad with "be yourself" bullshit.
I just have more girls talk to me, or give me their number, etc. when Ive been taken, because Im not being a try hard.
Honestly that is really the best rule for getting women. Just be in a relationship and not be a virgin and you will have more women come to you for some odd reason.
fkiblaze said:
Honestly that is really the best rule for getting women. Just be in a relationship and not be a virgin and you will have more women come to you for some odd reason.
Preselection bias, it’s part of female nature to rate men who are already spoken-for as higher than unspoken-for men. Especially if they’re high status already. In fact, many OG PUAs made use of this quirk by hiring escorts and taking them to bars/clubs etc and basically just flirting with other women whilst their escort girl just was there to affirm him and be near him. Men comically are easy to fool, but so are women.
AryanSuperSoldier said:
Preselection bias, it’s part of female nature to rate men who are already spoken-for as higher than unspoken-for men. Especially if they’re high status already. In fact, many OG PUAs made use of this quirk by hiring escorts and taking them to bars/clubs etc and basically just flirting with other women whilst their escort girl just was there to affirm him and be near him. Men comically are easy to fool, but so are women.
I mean, ive always considered men to be the opposite. i mean men make just as bad decisions when it comes to dating as women, but the men that do it know they are, where women tend to just make bad decisions and think they are good. For example, every man i know that dated a crazy women, he will be like "yea she is crazy, but she is hot/good in bed" or so on. I dont really know men that date a woman where they are like "i thought she had an amazing personality but then she constantly abused me!" It's always either, she is hot so idc or she is the best/only option i have. Men are also willing to accept lies from hotter women, too.
So some women will just do something bad and think they're good or popular because they dated some bad guy while getting hurt or get yelled then complain, if you think about it, it's like that in a way . Also I don't like how some guys will just fall head over heels over a mentally ill/abusive girl because she's hot, I have never seen any guy who falls head over heels over an ugly mentally ill/abusive girl unless he's a simp.
somebleacheduser said:
So some women will just do something bad and think they're good or popular because they dated some bad guy while getting hurt or get yelled then complain, if you think about it, it's like that in a way .
The general problem is women are far more socially influenced than men. When society was more healthy it wasn't as much of a problem because the norms were generally good things, so instead of having crazy blue haired women yell about racism to men, you instead just have like nuns yelling at men for drinking at the pub instead of going to work. Now that society is so messed up, women also follow that trend of being messed up.
The second issue is women never really evolved to pick their own mates, it was generally down the the father or so on. Now it's entirely up to the woman, of which she didnt evolve for, but that is combined with society being messed up and influencing them, so it creates the current mess with all the abuse and so on. You are going to have to fix one of those 2 issues if you want society to have healthy relationships. Either make it so the parents are picking who the daughter marries again or make society healthy and non-dysgenic, so the influence is twords more virtuous decisions.
Also I don't like how some guys will just fall head over heels over a mentally ill/abusive girl because she's hot, I have never seen any guy who falls head over heels over an ugly mentally ill/abusive girl unless he's a simp.
I dont really have an issue with this. Most men arent gigachad alphas, so mentally ill hot girls are about the best option many dudes have a chance to get, otherwise they are stuck with the mentally ill ugly girls, or just no one.
fkiblaze said:
The general problem is women are far more socially influenced than men. When society was more healthy it wasn't as much of a problem because the norms were generally good things, so instead of having crazy blue haired women yell about racism to men, you instead just have like nuns yelling at men for drinking at the pub instead of going to work. Now that society is so messed up, women also follow that trend of being messed up.
The second issue is women never really evolved to pick their own mates, it was generally down the the father or so on. Now it's entirely up to the woman, of which she didnt evolve for, but that is combined with society being messed up and influencing them, so it creates the current mess with all the abuse and so on. You are going to have to fix one of those 2 issues if you want society to have healthy relationships. Either make it so the parents are picking who the daughter marries again or make society healthy and non-dysgenic, so the influence is twords more virtuous decisions.I dont really have an issue with this. Most men arent gigachad alphas, so mentally ill hot girls are about the best option many dudes have a chance to get, otherwise they are stuck with the mentally ill ugly girls, or just no one.
Women tend to get influenced by anything even if it's weird or morally wrong, that's why they'll do like the examples you provided as well as believe stereotypes like about how one autistic guy hurt someone and it's now where all autistic dudes are seen as creeps or crazy from women's WOV. I have a younger cousin who says all dads are all the same because of her biological dad and her step dad abandoned her and plus possible feminism and degen stuff getting to her brain.
Lets not forget that women have a higher chance of being on SSRIs plus abusing them than men, some guys will either cope by being a doomer or supress those feelings since society doesn't like seeing men feel. Then there's women who threaten men to not have sex with them when Roe v Wade happened despite them not looking the best or they're more plastic than a plastic water bottle, men didn't lose much since most of them will not have sex with them hence this joke [x] is fat and I will not have sex with them (not related but it had been a joke for a long time)
I believe that it should be both: Parents picking their boyfriends for them and if society gets cleaned from filth.
Yep, it seems to be that way, that's why I see dudes simping for those "4chanite femcels phenotype" girls because other options don't exist or are limited.
somebleacheduser said:
Then there's women who threaten men to not have sex with them when Roe v Wade happened despite them not looking the best or they're more plastic than a plastic water bottle, men didn't lose much since most of them will not have sex with them hence this joke [x] is fat and I will not have sex with them (not related but it had been a joke for a long time)
That was so silly when it happened because it's clearly was all talk as we obviously know. A slut isnt going to stop being a slut because of a political decision, and they werent having sex with the people they were threatening that with anyway as you said.
I believe that it should be both: Parents picking their boyfriends for them and if society gets cleaned from filth.
im fine with women making stupid choices, im just not fine with other men or society having to deal with the consequence of their decisions. If they want to have kids with some abusive man that leaves them as single moms and stuff, my issue is how the taxpayer has to be cucked and then pay to raise their offspring. Welfare for single moms is about the most morally disgusting policy you can think of because it's literally state enforced cuckouldry to an extreme degree. You are forcing men(many of which might even still be virgins) to pay for the children of other worse men that pump and dump or so on. And unlike normal cuckouldry, the man is forced to give the woman his resources without being able to refuse, and the woman doesnt even have to be in a relationship with him or have sex with him. It is literally the morally equivalent of if the government forced women to have sex with random men that cant get laid. Or like if your gf dumps you then government comes in and then makes some random woman provide for men's sexual needs.
Yep, it seems to be that way, that's why I see dudes simping for those "4chanite femcels phenotype" girls because other options don't exist or are limited.
well i think a lot of those men tend to like 4chanite femcel girls cause normie girls are kinda worse in theory. Like if you are a 4chan incel, you kinda think the female equivalent would be the right match for you, and also you think she would be more loyal cause more introverted. The reality from what i heard tho is the opposite, since the reality is you arent going to find a girl who isnt getting a bunch of opposite sex attention that way, either. She's going to have a lot of dudes hitting her up, it's just going to be a bunch of incel dudes instead of normie dudes, but the quantity is still likely the same if not more cause she would be more terminally online. Many men tend to like the introverted wierd girls because your primitive brain sees them as social outcasts, and if they are social outcasts that must mean they have a lot less men competing for them, and so you have a better chance and also they are more likely to stay loyal. That might have been true in the past when the woman would be like a witch living in the outskirts of town, but the internet changed that reality in the modern times so it's no longer true.
Bumping this thread, dunno if friendships are on topic with this thread because to me, friendships and dating are pretty similar.
Why is it that I only find others who just copies someone just because some rapper does it: For context, while friend hunting, I see a lot of people who were mostly ratchets, thugs, wannabe hoodrats, deadbeats, basic, and undesirable types (imo: drug abusers, gooners, prostitutes, alcoholics, etc). While I see that, I see some white guys being wiggers and I honestly don't know why some of them are that. Those kinds I see that I know of are Lil Peep, Mac Miller, and Eminem and I see them copy them in some to most capacity.
For a fact, a lot of those are very anti-autism since when they think of autistic people, they think of mentally ill manchildren or low IQ specimens and basically treat autists like subhumans. Honestly, out of all places, this place is autist friendly since I know for a fact, at least some members on here are possibly on the spectrum. Sucks that where I try to find them in my area irl, they don't exist or I have to go several miles to go to some autism convention. Part of me knows that autists tend to be nonconformists but at the same time, some of them are easily influenced so that's why some will try to act like rappers or thugs though seeing this in them is pretty rare.
Honestly, finding autists online was a lot easier than doing so in real life and a lot of them are more authentic than most people I see and meet. Back then, the only chance of finding such irl in the 1980s-1990s was either LAN parties or Usenet clubs/old forums.
BrownBunnyBoy said:
I've tried many times but I want a white boyfriend!!! I'm just a fucking petite small brown asian boy from Malaysia who needs a bf!!!
Its so fustratinggg, please God give me a Todd Ingram coded bf FOR REALL
BrownBunnyBoy said:
I've tried many times but I want a white boyfriend!!! I'm just a fucking petite small brown asian boy from Malaysia who needs a bf!!!
Its so fustratinggg, please God give me a Todd Ingram coded bf FOR REALL
Dunno if it's still relevant but have you tried dating apps and changing the location to a western country, if you do it in your area: you'll see some locals and old foreigners. If you have money to get out of Malaysia, try to look up any rock concerts since Todd Ingram bf = white rockstar bf and go there, I know for certain that there's people who still like rock/metal but the real question is whether finding a gay white rockstar bf is easy or not, sure, it's possible to find bisexual ones but dunno if you want that or you exclusively want gay ones.
somebleacheduser said:
Bumping this thread, dunno if friendships are on topic with this thread because to me, friendships and dating are pretty similar.
Why is it that I only find others who just copies someone just because some rapper does it: For context, while friend hunting, I see a lot of people who were mostly ratchets, thugs, wannabe hoodrats, deadbeats, basic, and undesirable types (imo: drug abusers, gooners, prostitutes, alcoholics, etc). While I see that, I see some white guys being wiggers and I honestly don't know why some of them are that. Those kinds I see that I know of are Lil Peep, Mac Miller, and Eminem and I see them copy them in some to most capacity.
For a fact, a lot of those are very anti-autism since when they think of autistic people, they think of mentally ill manchildren or low IQ specimens and basically treat autists like subhumans. Honestly, out of all places, this place is autist friendly since I know for a fact, at least some members on here are possibly on the spectrum. Sucks that where I try to find them in my area irl, they don't exist or I have to go several miles to go to some autism convention. Part of me knows that autists tend to be nonconformists but at the same time, some of them are easily influenced so that's why some will try to act like rappers or thugs though seeing this in them is pretty rare.
Honestly, finding autists online was a lot easier than doing so in real life and a lot of them are more authentic than most people I see and meet. Back then, the only chance of finding such irl in the 1980s-1990s was either LAN parties or Usenet clubs/old forums.
Well modern western society makes the straight white male autist/introvert its number one enemy it tries to destroy, so it's not suprising. The closer to that category, the harsher you will have it.
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fkiblaze said:
Well modern western society makes the straight white male autist/introvert it's number one enemy it tries to destroy, so it's not suprising. The closer to that category, the harsher you will have it.
Yeah, I remember that I saw a reddit screenshot on some incelish twitter account and OP in the screenshot claimed autistic men, specifically autistic white men get coddled a lot while most of them are highly likely to be virgins and/or be victims of bullying and discriminated against harshly and harassed because of their autism. Unfortunately some of those guys have to find ways to make themselves marginalized so they don't be perceived as threats: In my case, when I was on some autist friendship and dating app (Don't go there, all of it is just leftists sperging over shit no one cares about or causing drama. Some act like actual womanchildren/manchildren. Couldn't find any results either), this autistic guy identifies with several sexualities and genders and pretty some usual leftist stuff, he doesn't have luck with friends and I guess dates (due to possible trauma), part of me thinks he's in an incel in denial because incels in denial will actively try to avoid the "misogynist" label (though thugs are more woman hating than some dude with autism who can't get a gf let alone female friend) or he knows that so he has to marginalize himself so he can be on the good side and appear progressive. The only places for them are here and that's it: 4chan is a cesspool and autists there are degens, groomed or not. Autism forums are either dead or have heavily left wing bias.
Dunno about white supremacy forums since I know that for a fact, we had Dylann and Payton who are either confirmed or speculated autists.
Sucks western society encourages people to dehumanize autistic white men and tell people to go out with shitheads who do nothing but hurt people.
They literally let gangsters, looters, murderers, pedos out in public but an autistic man tries to talk to a girl and in some cases, he gets falsely accused of harassment, making him very confused and the situation extremely hard to process.
Honestly, in other countries where whiteness is celebrated, you'll have more luck with girls and they may look past his autism.
Let's not forget I had a classmate say she would abandon her child or abort him if he was autistic and the thing is that she's literally bipolar/borderline, she has no place to talk when she's definitely mentally ill and abusive towards her partners, doesn't help that her mom is abusive and she complains about her dad.
Also I see girls on Twitter fetishizing autistic white men thinking most of them are the usual "positive" stereotypes associated with autism, I honestly don't know how to feel about this. It feels like they're just fetishizing a condition based on what they saw on Netflix.
somebleacheduser said:
Also I see girls on Twitter fetishizing autistic white men thinking most of them are the usual "positive" stereotypes associated with autism, I honestly don't know how to feel about this. It feels like they're just fetishizing a condition based on what they saw on Netflix.
Im not familiar with that trend. I dont think anyone has an issue with it if it makes those autistic white men more likely to get female friends/gf. Somehow i suspect thst isnt the case though and it's just a case of stated prefrence vs reveal prefrence. Those girls would find an actual autistic dude wanting to be with them a creep.
fkiblaze said:
Im not familiar with that trend. I dont think anyone has an issue with it if it makes those autistic white men more likely to get female friends/gf. Somehow i suspect thst isnt the case though and it's just a case of stated prefrence vs reveal prefrence. Those girls would find an actual autistic dude wanting to be with them a creep.
It's kind of rare in general Twitter spaces but I kind of see it a lot in true crime spaces, there's girl that simp for Adam Lanza, Dylann Roof, and other autists because they're autistic but will reject normal autistic white guys because of stated vs revealed. But it's true, the autistic white guys who even fit those stereotypes will be hard to find and those are just stereotypes: It's not cute to be socially awkward, not cute to get anxious over crowds and other things that trigger them, autism is not cute like what Netflix and Tumblr says. And no they don't have childish interests, autists don't need that, I've seen autists who are into firearms, white supremacy, history, etc.
It's either we get indirectly fetishized but we don't fit their visions or we get hated on by society.
Also borderline is a lot worse than autism, I don't get how people can tolerate a BPD girl especially with the severity of her symptoms while most will never help out autistic or BPD guys.
somebleacheduser said:
It's kind of rare in general Twitter spaces but I kind of see it a lot in true crime spaces, there's girl that simp for Adam Lanza, Dylann Roof, and other autists because they're autistic but will reject normal autistic white guys because of stated vs revealed. But it's true, the autistic white guys who even fit those stereotypes will be hard to find and those are just stereotypes: It's not cute to be socially awkward, not cute to get anxious over crowds and other things that trigger them, autism is not cute like what Netflix and Tumblr says. And no they don't have childish interests, autists don't need that, I've seen autists who are into firearms, white supremacy, history, etc.
It's either we get indirectly fetishized but we don't fit their visions or we get hated on by society.
Also borderline is a lot worse than autism, I don't get how people can tolerate a BPD girl especially with the severity of her symptoms while most will never help out autistic or BPD guys.
Well in that case, it's just the girls fetishizing psychopaths/serial killers like some do. They wouldnt find the nonpsychopathic/nonmurderous autist hot.
As for autism not being cute, it depends on if it's coming from the male ir female. Yes male autism isnt attractive, but men like women with autism and find it cute. A lot of men would want a socially awkward or isolated gf because he probably sees it as the girl is more likely to be loyal.
As for BPD. Yea, most of the time they are crazy, but i have seen some people where the BPD just makes them depressed not crazy.
fkiblaze said:
Well in that case, it's just the girls fetishizing psychopaths/serial killers like some do. They wouldnt find the nonpsychopathic/nonmurderous autist hot.
As for autism not being cute, it depends on if it's coming from the male ir female. Yes male autism isnt attractive, but men like women with autism and find it cute. A lot of men would want a socially awkward or isolated gf because he probably sees it as the girl is more likely to be loyal.
As for BPD. Yea, most of the time they are crazy, but i have seen some people where the BPD just makes them depressed not crazy.
True. They only like those guys because they're autistic and "bad boy" but correct term is edgy (To me, it's more of edgy than being thuggish or gangster). There's dude that basically think they're cool and may relate to them though they're not the romance type unless the criminal is some edgy 4chanite femcel girl.
That's also true, a lot of guys like autistic girls because they're not as basic and most are socially awkward and again, the loyalty aspect.
I put that there because I mostly witness crazy BPD girls over any depressed one, don't forget they push that everywhere too.
Going back to topic: Where does one even find autistic people nowadays other than 4chan and here? Autism forums are dead or liberal biased and most places are not autism friendly or are far away.